Since my girlfriend left for uni, I’ve become attracted to her 14-year-old kid sister
DEAR DEIDRE: NOW my girlfriend is at uni I have grown close to her kid sister. I want to stay loyal to my girlfriend but it’s getting harder to resist temptation.
I am 20 and my girlfriend is 18. We have some problems, mainly over being long-distance now.
Her sister is 14 and when I go to her house we play-fight and always seem to end up touching.
Last week I accidentally hit her on the cheek and then I kissed it better.
Since then I just want to be in bed with her. I am trying to see her and her family less but I long for her.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Well done on at least trying to back off. If you had sex with this under-age girl it would be illegal and disastrous for everyone.
Maybe your relationship with your girlfriend isn’t going to survive being so far apart – many don’t since we change so much during our teens and early twenties.
But her 14-year-old sister is not the answer. Don’t go round there at all for now.
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