I make all the right noises during sex but I just want it to end
DEAR DEIDRE: I MAKE all the right noises during sex but I just want it to end as soon as possible.
My husband is 38 and I am 37. We’ve been married for 17 years and have two children.
I love my husband but the passion is missing now. We don’t really show each other affection. I tell him what I like in bed it makes no difference.
Afterwards I feel let down and feel terrible that I want it to end instead of enjoying it.
I blame it on a hectic family life and being tired but we did enjoy sex before, even when tired or stressed.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You can’t go on like this.
Don’t accuse him of not satisfying you – that will only dent his confidence – but explain you both need to make some changes to make sex fresh and exciting.
Next time, say you will tell him exactly what you want him to do. That in itself can be very exciting. My e-leaflet How To Thrill A Woman In Bed will help you explain.
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