DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been cheating on my girlfriend with girls and boys. I’m an 18-year-old girl and have found women attractive since I was 13.
DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been cheating on my girlfriend with girls and boys.
I’m an 18-year-old girl and have found women attractive since I was 13.
For the last two years, I’ve been seeing someone my age, and I do care about her.
But I’ve also kissed a few other girls, and then I slept with a boy, 19, at a party – which made me hate myself.
I think I like him and we have a connection.
I don’t know what to do and I don’t want to hurt my girlfriend. Am I bisexual?
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Don’t rush into anything with this boy. Give yourself time alone to get to know yourself better.
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